After failing at this miserably and moving back in with my mother at the age of 42, I felt like a fool. I’d been successfully using the law of attraction techniques in my life since the late 70’s but ended up attracting a man who had a questionable character. I’d known him since he was 15, so I couldn’t figure how I didn’t know that he really wasn’t a good man.
He claimed to be spiritual, but ended up being a man of the worst sort that preys on little children. Only the child he preyed on was my own and I didn’t find out until she had graduated and gone away to college, more than six years after the abuse ended. It took me a while to get my “stuff” together — but I left him and moved in with mom. I didn’t take anything from the relationship other than the things I owned. I wanted nothing to do with him.
What left me devastated for a while is that I always had the dream of the house with flower boxes and white picket fences where my daughters would grow up happy and secure — I had had such a rough childhood I wanted something different for them. When that didn’t happen, I don’t have the words to share with you the heartbreak I went through for my daughters and myself. But thankfully like me, my daughters are survivors and have moved on and healed.
For me, I questioned my worth as a woman, my inability to “see” what was happening and how I “attracted” this into my life and subsequently my daughter’s to begin with. What I’ve learned is too much to put here in this article, but in the “Little Book of Becoming” I share the method I used to draw my soul mate to me, the man who truly loves me for me and that I am still with today. I met him just under a year after I moved in with my mother, and have been with him ever since. We were married in 1998 and in 2000, he began work on my dream house that I designed. He built my dream home for me because he wanted me to know that someone loved me and knew that I was “worth” it.
Loving Yourself First
To attract the right man, you’ve got to love yourself first. That’s the most important thing I learned. I didn’t have healthy relationship models when I was growing up, so I didn’t learn how to love myself. I thought if I did what others wanted me to do, then they would love me. This is backwards. You have to love yourself first — healthily and wholly — to attract the right kind of man in your life. Attracting the right kind of man starts with knowing your worth as a woman. If you don’t understand this, go watch the “Joy Luck Club” so that you can understand this more thoroughly. It’s a good movie that will make you cry, but it will make you understand how important it is to love yourself first.
There’s a few things you can do to help this, and I’ve written about it in my article, Ten Tips for Loving Yourself. If you practice these things (and they’re all fun to do) you’ll get yourself into the right vibration to attract a good man.
So to bring this back to you, I want you to realize that you are worth it. Most women don’t understand men or how they tick, but after all I’ve been through, I’ve learned a lot. And my colleague, T “Dub” has created a wonderful program to help women not only attract the man she wants, but to get him to commit to her. What’s great about this program is that is written by two men, one a happily married man (for 16 years) and the other, a man considered by other men as a dating expert. This is a program for women written by men that gives them the tips to help attract and keep the right man. The information in this program is incredible and can surely help you attract and marry the man of your dreams.
T “Dub” offers a free video that provides three tips for free on what you can do right now to attract the man of your dreams and get him to propose to you. If you don’t like the program, you can get a refund — there is no risk. Visit today while the video is still available, I don’t know how long T. Dub will keep the video on the website.