Haven’t you learned yet that your thoughts married to your emotions create a message that is pumped out through your heart into the Universe?  Don’t you know that message is a just like a command executed on a computer; it’s one purpose to bring you what you have issued forth?

Like the replicator on Star Trek, what you ask for is what you’re going to get back.  It’s not your words that do that asking!  It’s your vibes, dudes, yep-that energy that you’re putting out there-that’s  what creates your reality.

Not your parents, not the guy who beat you up in grade school.  Not the rapist or the bad politician.  YOU!  You alone are responsible for what you think and feel.  You alone are the only one who can live your life.  Your parents can’t crawl inside your head and make your lips move to say those words.  You may tell yourself that and believe it as well, but you’re only fooling yourself.

You Can Change Your Life

It just depends on how much you really want to. I’ve noticed over the last few years, with all the hullabaloo about the movie, The Secret, that most people think all they need to do is have a thought or two, evoke an emotion or two, and that should be it—they manifest their desire, a car, a house, a mate, whatever.

Instant manifestation, that’s what they’re into, without any effort on their part. For the most part, this won’t work. This kind of attitude will simply bring more of the same. Same old, same old—whole lot of nothing.

The law of attraction works, it’s always working, but it responds to your unspoken vibration, not just your words. You can’t fool the universe. You can say as many affirmations as you want, but if you’re forcing yourself to say the words you’re just paying lip service.

Quit The Lip Service

The Universe responds to your vibes, not your words. It’s just common sense. If you feel bad, you’re gonna get bad delivered right to your doorstep. Whatever you’re putting out is what you’re going to get back. Nothing more, nothing less. You might be saying all the right things, but your attitude sucks. When your attitude sucks, so will your life.

Where do you put your energy? What are you into? What makes you happy? Can you feel that feeling? Add that feeling to your positive affirmations and watch how quickly life can change for you.

Give Up Your Sad Story

I don’t want to hear your sad story. Just get over it. It’s time to move on. Everybody has had something bad happen to him or her; most everybody has a sad story. The point is this: as long as you keep telling your “sad” story; you’ll keep getting that showing up in your life. Are you over 21 and living away from home? So why are you still blaming your parents for your miserable life?

Your parents came from folks even less evolved than we are. Don’t you get it? It’s no more their fault than it is yours. But it is time to take responsibility.

You must remember that we are NOT what has happened to us. We are not “our stories.” We are divine children of the Universe and what happens to you is what you’ve been conditioned to believe is your lot in life. So you keep creating it over and over and over. It’s time to get a new map.

Look at all the famous role models of today; just pick any one of them. Most of them will tell you they had a rough childhood. Most of them will tell you a story that could put your sad story to shame. Most of them will tell you that at some point in their life, they made a decision. They made the decision that they were going to be different. They would succeed, where others had failed. The Paris Hiltons of the world are few and far between—besides, who would want that kind of life anyway? C’mon and admit it—she got famous, not for her grandfather’s business acumen, but because she was rich AND a video of her involved in an intimate activity was unleashed on the internet.

What Kind of Reputation Do You Want To Have?

Yeah, that’s what I want to be known for the rest of MY life. NOT! You are the Star on the Stage of Your Own Life! There isn’t anyone who will live your life for you. No one can. It’s not possible. So quit blaming your parents, your spouse, your children, your boss, your company, or whomever else you’re blaming. Stand up right now and take responsibility for what you’re thinking and feeling.

You can change the negative thinking, negative emotions; the—I’m—not—good—enough stuff in your life. You can say STOP to that nasty little internal critic; that negative self-talk that’s always there to remind you that you’re simply not fit enough, or smart enough, or pretty enough, or rich enough or, frankly, ANYTHING, enough. You have to take charge of that voice.

Just tell it to STOP and then replace it with something positive. Write a list of all your good qualities, write a list of all the things you are thankful for—make that a daily practice and watch how quickly your life will change. When you get up in the morning, go to the mirror and find something good to say to yourself. Practice saying good stuff (and meaning it) to yourself over and over and within a very short time, all those things you dreamt about, start to show up in your life.

I don’t care how old you are, how young you are, or what’s going on in your life right this moment. Simply make a commitment to yourself to stop the negativity, stop the complaining, stop telling stories of how horrible it was growing up and take charge of your life. Look for something good.

Can’t find anything good in your life? How about the simple fact that you’re walking on top of the ground instead of being buried under it. Start with that.

Give thanks for the little things, one at a time and watch how they multiply.

Go ahead, start right now. I dare you!

I double dare you!

I only sing in front of those people who I’ve known a long time, family, or they love me unconditionally, because when I sing, the wild turkeys on our land gobble, the dog howls, and the mother person, the pirate at 81, asks me if I’m hurt in any way or in pain.  Even at 81 she’s still got her sense of humor.  And no, it doesn’t hurt my feelings.  It’s the truth.  I just don’t have the voice for it.

It’s a joke I tell folks – I can do everything but sing.  Like Mary Poppins I am practically perfect in every way – but that.  It’s what keeps me planted with both feet on the ground.  Where I sing is in my paintings and in my writings, stories, blogs, articles, poetry and novellas and my interactions with those I meet.

But Rachael, my baby daughter, who is a mother herself and in her early thirties can sing the socks off of most anyone.  I recently asked her to sing a song for me to make a little video promotion for the Little Book, but alas, right now, she’s got a cold and being the impatient Aries I am, I couldn’t wait.  So I used another song she sang for me one day.  She had bought this new inexpensive microphone for her computer and decided to give it a try.

This is a song she sang for me on a one shot deal – a capella – which is latin for “in the style of the chapel” and refers to singing without independent instrumental accompaniment.

I put some pictures to it and added my quick advert at the end.  So from my heart to yours – through my daughter’s voice – enjoy!

You can find out more about The Little Book of Becoming-Your Primer for Living Inside Out – Your Primer for becoming a Stronger YOU by clicking here:  Go There Now!

This is not a new law. In fact, it wasn’t until the mid 1980′s when Abraham, through Esther Hicks coined the phrase ‘The Law of Attraction.’ Prior to that, most knew it as ‘create your own reality’. And even prior to that, about the turn of the 20th century with the New Thought movement it came disguised under many different names.

Call it the Law of Pulling, the Law of Drawing, the Law – it works. Period. Whatever you call it. It always works. Whether what is showing up in your life is something you like or not. It’s work for everything. It’s always working.

This isn’t some new age hocus-pocus. It’s physics. Quantum physics to be exact. It’s the leading edge of thought and it’s what gives you the computer from which you’re reading this article.

If your life is a mess – it’s not the law that’s the issue – it’s what you’re thinking and feeling about that’s the issue. And sometimes what you’re thinking and feeling comes from a deeper level of your being.

It comes from your sub-conscious. Where you keep your internal map of reality. The one imprinted upon you from the moment of conception until you were about eight years old. It’s not your fault that garbage keeps showing up in your life. It’s how you’re programmed.

Just like a remote can be programmed to turn on a DVD player, a TV, a cable or satellite receiver or a CD player, you’ve been programmed to churn out whatever is showing up in your life. Got issues? Usually they come from your programming.

This is when you sabotage yourself. And generally it’s why the Law of Attraction may not seem to be working in your life.

What is self-sabotage?

Self-sabotage happens when you have a desired goal, and it seems as if your very own behavior is preventing that goal from being achieved. As an example, say you have launched a new online business endeavor. You’ve done all the right things, developed your list of keywords, done your SEO optimization, hung out your virtual sign, and voila! Nothing. Absolutely nothing. Nothing, no traffic, nothing.. Deep down you knew it wouldn’t work anyway, because nothing ever works for you.

That’s it right there – the self-sabotage, “deep down you knew it wouldn’t work anyway, because nothing ever works for you.” It’s a deep core belief: ‘you’re just not good enough.’ Somewhere along the way, that negative belief got programmed into your thinking.

You may be unware of your own thoughts. Worse still, you say it out loud. Your life tells a story of scarcity. And you repeat the story to your circle of friends. It’s as if you’re laying the foundation to a massive building that grows as you continue to tell the story.

And unless you change the way you think, you’ll recreate the same failing scenario, over and over and over again. It’s one reason the Law of Attraction doesn’t work in your life. What simply are the principles of the law of attraction?

• What you focus on with thought and emotion become real in your life.
• Your world reflects what you think , feel and believe.
• The circumstances, the people and the events in your life come to you because of what you feel and think. Always.

Positive Affirmations Don’t Always Work

You can quote a positive affirmation one hundred million times a day but if it goes against your deep sub-conscious programming – it ain’t going to work. Period. It won’t ever work.

Ever tune into two radio stations right next to each other and find that one bleeds over the other? That’s usually because you’re closer to the antenna of the one that’s bleeding over the other. Just like sub-conscious programming – it comes from within. You’re closer to the station.

So how do you remove the program? You replace the old program with a new one. This may seem a daunting task, but it can be done pretty easily. Sometimes it takes outside help.

It takes aid. It takes a teacher. It’s been said a long time, when the student is ready, the teacher appears.

Meet Master Teacher Bob Doyle. He’s a master of the law of attraction and master of creating the kind of life you only dream about when you’re staring off into space while waiting in traffic just as that car you always wanted zooms by in the lane next to you. You know the one; you just moved out of that lane and into this one and came to a complete halt. Don’t you just love it when that happens? Not!? Law of attraction again!

With Bob as your Master Teacher, you can learn all about the law of attraction. Learn to create health, wealth, abundance and joy. Uncover the facts, release those things that derail your dreams, and start living the life you were meant to live..

Don’t believe me? Go over to Wealth Beyond Reason and check out Bob’s free video. In 2006, I began the WBR program – and the better it gets, the better life gets.

Why wait on your dream life? Daylight’s a burning – are you going to dream your life away or are you going learn to live the life of your dreams?